Seems the destruction fairies had been at work at ur resting place again Pops !!!

i know ur probably up there thinking dont let it get to us … but its so heartbreaking returning every week to see ur resting place looking unloved and as much as they think its ok to dictate how plain they want ur resting place to be and how they dont want artificial flowers on , at least it would look a fraction of how much ur loved and missed for more than a couple of days instead of looking abandoned …. I know u remember ur comment about being buried near her mum , a d it was solely because you believed ur grave would be tended and tidied and look loved as she tended her parents weekly …. BUT THIS IS NOT HOW IT IS !!!

I truly believe u wouldnt have a problem with whatever flowers we choose and would be happy that we do care and visit at least weekly  …   Cos right now it’s making me/us feel  very bitter … and i know u dont want that either…. 

everyone is behaving like we dont know ur wishes or likes , … BUT I KNOW WE DO  … so i’m sorry pops but for as long as we are breathing then we will continue to love and miss you and show your loved regardless of spiteful attempts to make it look otherwise …. INCLUDING marking your grave with a more dignified tribute if the lying delay continues … 

i so wish you were here Pops just to make this all stop … we love and miss u more each day

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